Have you ever caught yourself saying, “I’ll never get better,” or “I’m always in pain”?
Yeah, I used to say that too—without realizing how much weight those words carried.
Here’s the truth: your words aren’t just sounds. They’re signals. And they’re either signaling healing or frustration. When you’re recovering from something as big as a knee replacement, every bit of your energy matters. What you say to yourself—out loud or in your head—sets the tone for how your body responds.
So today, I want to help you swap those “always” and “never” statements for words that actually move your healing forward.
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What if your biggest setback isn’t your knee — it’s your thoughts about your recovery?
That realization changed everything for me.
I remember the day it hit me. I was about six weeks out from my second knee replacement and realized I still wasn’t consistently hitting zero on my extension. Some days I’d get to 3 degrees, maybe 5 — but never zero. And that tiny number became a massive mental storm.
My calf hurt constantly. My foot and ankle were cranky. But the calf pain? It was brutal.
And I remember thinking something must be wrong. Something dire.
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Last year, we were supposed to fly out to Las Vegas to meet friends for the weekend. Our flight kept getting delayed… and then finally canceled. Suddenly, we were scrambling. Hotel accommodations had to be fixed, we weren’t sure if we were even going anymore, and everything felt up in the air.
That same feeling showed up in my first knee replacement adventure, six years ago.
Before I go into that, if you’re new here and still preparing for your knee replacement
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One thing that helped me wrap my head around knee replacement recovery was comparing it to something I already understood. I’d never faced a major surgery before, so I started leaning on analogies. Oddly enough, one of the most helpful was thinking of recovery like a vacation.Think about it: when traveling, people can help you along the way—family may drop you at the airport, the flight attendant hands you a drink, and the hotel staff checks you in.
But at the end of the day, it’s still your ID that gets scanned, your bag that gets weighed, your stomach that has to process the food to keep you going. Healing after knee replacement works the same way. You may have family, friends or neighbors cheering you on, but it’s still your body, your strength, your healing that carries you forward.
That’s why I leaned hard on analogies—things I had done before that felt familiar. One of the strangest but most helpful ones? A vacation.Think about it. When you travel, people can help you along the way, but at the end of the day it’s your ID that gets checked, your bag that gets weighed, your stomach that processes food to keep you going. Recovery is the same. You may have family, friends or neighbors cheering you on, but it’s still your body, your strength, your healing that carries you forward.
The more I sat with that, the more it made sense. Vacations don’t always go smoothly.
You’ve probably had a trip where something went sideways—a delayed flight, a lost reservation, or weather that canceled your plans. But you figured it out. You adjusted, you pivoted, and in the end, you still made memories.
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