As you are sitting there healing from your knee replacement, think about this…
What if I told you that everything was going to work out and you will be at 100% in a future that you are so close to?
It is.
It’s not a lie; I am not kidding.
Now that path may not be what you thought it would. Maybe you needed an MUA, maybe you got an infection or maybe you required another revision because the first didn’t take.
I was talking to a client today, and she asked how long it took me to get to 120 degrees after my knee replacement. She’s sitting at 115 right now, feeling like she hit a wall, and I could hear that mix of frustration and fear in her voice.
It reminded me exactly what this part of recovery feels like.
So, I told her the same thing I want you to hear:
You’re not stuck.
You’re in a phase. I call it the learning phase.
So you think you should be further along… maybe you’re not even six weeks out, or you’ve just hit that two-month mark, and you’re wondering why you still don’t feel “normal.”
Let me tell you something: you are not back to normal—or anywhere close to it—in six weeks.
And I say that as someone who’s been through not one, but two knee replacements and with all the love I can muster. When my surgeon told me, “I’ll see you in a year,” I swear it felt like the floor had been pulled out from under me. A year? I was thinking maybe three months tops.
But that’s the thing about recovery—it humbles you. It teaches you patience in ways you didn’t realize you were signing up for.
Last year, we were supposed to fly out to Las Vegas to meet friends for the weekend. Our flight kept getting delayed… and then finally canceled. Suddenly, we were scrambling. Hotel accommodations had to be fixed, we weren’t sure if we were even going anymore, and everything felt up in the air.
That same feeling showed up in my first knee replacement adventure, six years ago.
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One thing that helped me wrap my head around knee replacement recovery was comparing it to something I already understood. I’d never faced a major surgery before, so I started leaning on analogies. Oddly enough, one of the most helpful was thinking of recovery like a vacation.Think about it: when traveling, people can help you along the way—family may drop you at the airport, the flight attendant hands you a drink, and the hotel staff checks you in.
But at the end of the day, it’s still your ID that gets scanned, your bag that gets weighed, your stomach that has to process the food to keep you going. Healing after knee replacement works the same way. You may have family, friends or neighbors cheering you on, but it’s still your body, your strength, your healing that carries you forward.
